HOW TO TELL A GOOD FRIEND

QUALITIES OF A GOOD FRIEND

Haven’t we heard the famous saying a friend in need is a friend indeed? A friendship is an integral part of human existence.though true friend can take time to buikd and develop.

12. Characteristics of a good friend

1. Accepts you as you are:

A good friend is someone who does not try to be somebody that he is not and accepts you as you are. They are also patient with you when you make mistakes and forgive you when you hurt them.

2. Dependable;

a good friend is dependable and can trust with your secrets  and know that he would not let a third party no about it he sticks with you in good times and bad times ,when you ask for advice he points out, a good friend points out the right direction.

3. Honest;

A good friend will be honest and loyal with you. He does not break the promises that he made to you. He makes you feel safe and secure with him. He is your true critic you will find many who falsely appreciate you and your works to remain in good books. A good friend will tell you the truth even if its something you won’t want to hear. He will point out your mistakes in private and not in front of others and also help to overcome it.

4. Listen to you;

A good friend will always listen to you and care about your emotional needs and emotions a good friend will be there always when you need to talk. When you have news to share or grievances he gives you full attention.

5. Be there for you:

A good friend will be there with you through thick and thin. Good friends don’t call up only to request a favor. But he would be the first person to call up people to come to your aid in time of crises. He also does not allow you to indulge in any illicit activities.

6. Give you space;

A good friend respects your privacy. He understands that you have your family, other family and friends who are part of your life too and do not cling to you always. He builds and trust and confidence which makes you comfortable enough to make you share your good times and bad times with him.

7. Always in touch;

Good friends don’t always wait for you to call. He always makes an effort to keep in touch with you even if it’s true a quick phone call or in email .he knows what’s going on in your life and is interested about it. A good friend does not avoid you even if they are busy and do not ignore your phone call or mails. A good friend makes it clear that they care about you.

8. Do not bad mouth you;

A good friend does not bad mouth you or talks behind you back. A good friend is a friend you can trust and won’t gossip about you or try to spoil your reputation. They would let you know when they are concerned and do their best to stick up for you when you are in trouble. A good friend will apologize to you when you do something wrong. He does not keep grudges.

9. happy for you;

A good friend will never get jealous on your success but will be happy for you. He celebrates you success but would be happy for you. He celebrates your success and his success with you. When you are down and needs support he would be there to support and care about you. An ideal friend has a sensitive side which would make them understands people’s feeling’s. They may not be able to read your mind, but chances are they can usually tell when you’re happy, sad, excited, shocked or upset. a good friend will always know how to lifts your spirit and make your day.

10. supportive;

A good friend is supportive of you and your goals. He will know what makes you tick and help you be the person you want to be. They wont try to change who you are in a situation where you need to be defended he would be right there beside you.

11. Common interest;

A good friend is someone whom you have something in common. He is fun to be with. And he understands you and respects you.

12. Giving;

Good friends are more than what is asked. When they see a need they respond before the other person has the chance to ask without expecting anything in return and without anyone knowing about it. Good friends are generous with time, money possessions and knowledge. Best of all they have a generous spirit.

 There is a saying that what you give is what you get back. The qualities you want in a friend. Should be the same that you are offering to someone else can you expect to have good friends if you aren’t one yourself?