Tuesday, October 19, 2010

WHAT IS IT WITH GIRLS AND BAD BOYS?








Have you ever wondered why girls are always attracted to ‘bad boys or play boys’ in quote? I have had to ask myself such questions most times, trust me am a girl and I know how alluring it can be to mingle with a bad boys. Yet why we do it we never know. we pay deaf ears to warnings about him, in facet even insinuate our girlfriends are jealous of us only for us to come back with regrets heart aches, deep seethed anger and a bag full of regrets.
  There’s something alluring about playing with fire, even though you know it might burn you, yet you can’t resist the pull. I guess that’s the best explanation for it. Otherwise why would any sane babe, know that a guy is a heart breaker, chronic womanizer and still lust after him? Why would any sane babe go back to the same guy who turned her to a punching bag and treats her like trash?
  Irene and Isabel have been best of friends as long as they could remember. They both went to the same high school and same university. Irene met Todd in the university during her final year; he was rich, handsome and wayward. He loved her, but he couldn’t resist flirting with any babe and if Irene dares confronts him he would assault her and sometimes even hit her. Irene didn’t know what to do to make Todd change, but because she loved him she stayed with him. Isabel was her only confidant and she told Irene to dump Todd, but she didn’t have the nerve to do it.
  One day after terrible fight, Irene walked out of the relationship, though it was painful for her, she swore never to go back to Todd. Of course Isabel supported her decision all the way. Irene eventually met mark a cool guy who worked as a pastor’s assistant in the church. He was calm loving and caring. Irene was content to date him, especially as he was proposing marriage to her. As she was praying about it Todd came back to the picture. he told her how much he loved her how much he missed her, he also promised to behave himself, when Todd wants something he gets it, so he went all out for Irene and against her better judgment; she began to fall him all over again .
  In her mind she still had doubts about Todd’s sudden change and when she voiced it out.
‘Look baby, I told you I have changed. You can put me through a test and be sure that I will not fail; He said to her she nodded and smiled, watching him walk away as she remembered their good their days were together were. That night she tried to seduce Todd but he refused.
‘Irene as much as I love you, I think we should wait for our wedding night and we will enjoy it for the rest of our life’s together’. He insisted.
  Four days later Irene decided to pay Todd a visit, she got there and entered with her spare key. She entered the room and met Isabel lying down on the bed in her under wear, while Todd walked out of the bathroom, clad in towel.
  ‘What is going on here Isabel?’ she asked her dear friend
  ‘Irene I can explain’. Todd tried to talk as Irene ran out if the house. Of course she never went back to Todd’s house, and that was the end of friendship with Isabel, right now Irene is feeling so betrayed, it was obvious all the while she and Todd were dating; he was also dating her best friend and closest confidant. The question is what did Isabel find so irresistible in Todd to make her date him behind her friend’s back? What’s was so irresistible about Todd that made Irene to go looking for him, in spite of her wedding day was obviously close by?

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